2010年8月22日星期日

Chain of memories car

Remember the 70's, when the whole family to rural areas, the family was poor, but also an old bicycle. When I go to school every day to ride a bike. High school in the village, home to twelve years. A case of rainy days, the mud was deep, the mud around the wheels Wa Gaise very full, the wheels could not move, I carried the car away. Home, as people like Ni Hou. More than that, most cars go an 'suck the chain. As the dilapidated old toothless, often bad, go half way and it broke. No alternative but to go carts, often go sweating. At that time, a chain of seven dollars, but the family was poor, no money, a school, father squatted in the courtyard rattled repair. Is such, I have not wasted their homework, and the results have been top of the list in the class.
About 78 years, his father tied the counter. He got the first wages, give I bought a new chain. I felt extremely happy, never ever go without pushing a bike.
I turn to the next generation, do not have to repair the chain. Every day after school, a phone, "Daddy, I want to go home," I have to drive to pick up, regardless of wind or rain. In any case, the children also experience less than a car on a person's sense chain.

Why fall in love with a wolf sheep

Recently, people in the chat listening to sing a song, tune sounds good, listen to the lyrics do not quite understand. Ask cherry rain comrades, tell me is called "wolf fell in love with the sheep," the lyrics to the effect that the wolf fell in love with the sheep, the sheep fall in love with the wolf and the like. Might sound feels incredible, and then a refined, also has its own reason.

Fifties and sixties, girls looking object, all look to the root of red Miao Zhuang, family background good people, poor families, children of working families is preferred, to the rich kids at home against a bad law is to not get into eyes. To the era of reform and opening up, the girls began to look for a degree, and college students, graduate students are left over. Fortunately, I caught up with the dial, with a university degree, otherwise, a right-wing family identity, and this life is to remain a bachelor's almost broken. To the past few years, college students, graduate piles, the work can not be found, girls are no longer popular, and poor peasant families, working families is not folder eyes look. Girls seeking a partner to find a car, a house, a corporate boss. As long as the money, is love you do not talk, so the sheep will fall in love with the wolf story took place.

Now the sheep are very practical, not avoid their own choice, seeking a partner to the point, several factors have asked, does not consider the moral is good. As long as the wolf money, others will not care, just like the song, put it: "the sheep that do not polite, make me love you, how in danger around you, I will accompany you."

Education topics for children

Chinese people attach great importance to the education of the next generation, which almost every family is the most important thing. In addition to the food necessary for survival, the column is probably the second place on the children's education. Each married couple from the beginning, the child's growth path planning. From prenatal care to Kaoyan abroad, began a long journey over 20 years. Parents give up their own enjoyment, to give up her hobby, give up their careers and devoting themselves to the education of their children to, look forward to their children the same as a child prodigy to succeed, stand out. I am also one of them, also traveling on this road, though tired camel shoulder bow back, the two Bin dye cream, still diligently, Haoshouqiongjing without regret.

Education is a social hot spots, talking about the whole society. I am neither an expert academics, celebrities, nor served on the education sector, on education, some of one's own limitations, even some I tell. But education and my life has broken an unbreakable, I received in school education in ten years, and now my children again and fought with education, experience is always some simple and obvious. So, like a person standing on the foot, looked to the mountains, Yingyingchaochao always see something.

Operating capacity issues

After the child sensible, I spent a lot of pre-school thinking, bought some illustrated pictures and stories tape, led the children a story every day, listening to tapes, to cultivate children's language ability and reading interest. Should be said to be effective, the child gradually became interested in reading, but also has the habit of reading, often holding his book, pretentiously look. In fact, she did not know these words, just back it down. However, at school and beyond, finally cultivated interest in this subject to blow. The bar is homework, homework assignment too, and the child's age, some do not match. A night to write a few lower case, do a few pages of math problems, if the word was wrong to fine writing dozen times. Wrote very late every night, sleep, get up the next morning bed. This allows the child had a fear of learning, dragged to lose interest in learning.

To junior high and high school, work even more numerous. Each section has one or two test paper, five main surgical intensive up to have a dozen or cannelloni, which some repetitive topics. Every day, like robots to produce a job, struggling with teacher assignments, no time left at their disposal have, lose self-learning ability. Like a bird, always stay in the nest waiting for her mother fed, they can not fly out of food, how to fly. However, we look at the foreign school, the teacher assignments, usually only stay a topic and let students find information, find the answers. Operating capacity is not great, but the information in the search process, students study a lot of problems, practical ability and thinking skills have been tempered, the effect is not bad.

Here, I think of individualized issues. Teachers should be based on each student's learning level, the operating arrangement of different grades, the students select the operating power, good grades students can choose a little difficult problems, poor academic performance of students may choose to issue a little easier to have done the problem, or get it in the title do not do it. But it is difficult for teachers, too many students in the class now, five or six 10 students, teachers hardly have the energy to do it.

Behavioral norms

Children to school and met some unexpected things. Schools should have discipline, educate the next generation of discipline is indispensable. But now many disciplines, it is incredible, comparable with caretaker authority, and use a lot of points to manage the project. Depend on the side walk, hands can not help the wall, can not touch the stair railing, shoe covers on the plastic bag into the classroom should, in the classroom can not speak aloud. This last point some incredible, this is not deaf and dumb school, children with speech, physical function, why not address it, it is entirely contrary to the physiological characteristics of the students. Play is a child of nature, laugh on the child's mental development is good. Ring in the house all day the children can not speak, would not become a fool. Wearing eyes, transfixed, is the image of today's students. If a real war, a generation of people to the front, but even where the enemy can not find.

Entrance area of knowledge

Children on the high school, I began to pay attention to current knowledge of college entrance examination, after all, their own entrance from more than 20 years have passed. Do not see already, not a little surprised to see. Used to measure knowledge of the past, when people knowledge, only equivalent to the current junior high school. If 20 years ago, attended the entrance examination is now estimated that very few people can be admitted to the university. Entrance is really fast growth of knowledge, knowledge of each door is a thick one. There is a strange phenomenon, the knowledge of college entrance examination is not a high school textbooks, but to college entrance exam out of the question based on an expert to write reference books were created by deepening and expanding constantly, I call it the shadow of knowledge. This knowledge, students are turning to high school textbooks could not find the broken, do not look at reference books, taking college entrance certainly could not pass line. In order to prevent duplication of entrance examination questions, the questions experts struggled every year, renovation of tricks, and some knowledge has embarked on a pathway to university for the study after no benefit after entrance on the shelf.

In order to clarify the source of this knowledge, I have specialized in physics. Part of the knowledge is common in physics from the University of pluck, and advance to high school to do, and that's hard to understand, since the future to learn the knowledge, what is necessary to advance to secondary school to learn it, since the entrance examination to test, why not openly written in high school textbooks. Such as kinetic energy theorem, conservation of mechanical energy, momentum conservation law in part, simply pull than physics was also fine. There are some people that knowledge is a compilation of questions, such as charged particles in a magnetic field, electric field, gravitational field of the deflection problem, but also consider the Lorentz force, but also consider the electric force, but also consider the gravity, what practical significance of this? There are also charged straight conductor in the magnetic field, all the motion state wants to come out, in theory, may not gain a firm footing.

Methods of teaching children

In the Chinese unconscious, no one thought their child stupid, no one thought that their children can not be admitted to Tsinghua University, Beijing University, but the end result is that the vast majority of children are not able to Tsinghua University, Peking University. Of course, the test into Tsinghua University, Beijing, and not your child on the stupid, nor your child will have no future.

What is wrong? I think that today's children than not the intellect, than the ability to learn, than the management themselves. Which child has the ability to manage their own, which the children would have had on the Tsinghua University, Beijing University of conditions. Many parents (including me) attention to intelligence training, all types of cram schools to send their children to buy a variety of reference books. In order to save time children often take it upon themselves, their children wash their hands, feet, wear clothes, be ready to eat, drink something to send to the hands. But over time, the child's self-care ability is not trained, not their own active learning, bought reference books do not know how to use. Therefore, parents spent a lot of effort, but ultimately the outcome was not good.

Olympic Math

Mathematical Olympiad has been covered with a layer of mystery, parents seem to regard it as a touchstone for smart kids, parents, children learn to participate in Mathematical Olympiad, there was hope, if that is the glory of winning, and Tsinghua University, Beijing may become easily capture. I once sent her children to Mathematical Olympiad classes to learn some time, and therefore have read the Mathematical Olympiad primary and secondary materials. But the study for some time, I'll lead the child back. One reason, the first degree, or their child's smart enough, fear of affecting the normal classes in school learning; then is the teaching materials Mathematical Olympiad feeling somewhat puzzled. For example, primary school Mathematics Olympiad which are permutations, there are inclusion and exclusion principle, there are drawers principles, logical reasoning and other knowledge, these are beyond the high school and college should have learned, it is necessary for students learning the knowledge? Even learned, also, and stereotyped knowledge about that health swallow, it.

Evaluation of the Mathematical Olympiad, and I quote director of the Institute of Mathematics, Chinese Academy of Sciences, the famous mathematician Yang Le of a conversation: "Now the Mathematical Olympiad for the development of very normal, started out from primary school, very young students, have been relatively heavy burden of school plus Mathematical Olympiad, the burden was even heavier, Mathematical Olympiad love by a few students into the participation of all students. " "Mathematical Olympiad, or intensive training in mathematics, mathematics learning is not conducive to it, I do not think, because the focus on intensive training for some time, it is not intended for students to learn the system, serious consideration, but forcible taught to students skills to solve some partial problems. The result is students learning mathematics is not only not improved, on the other courses of study and also weakened. This comprehensive development of students adversely. " "There is also a concern, namely, the Mathematical Olympiad lead students weary. Originally mathematics learning is to inspire students to rise to interest students, has now become a heavy burden, and caused very good results."

Piano, art education

Arts education is also of concern to parents, many children on Saturdays, Sundays arranged a very full, complete a remedial course on the culture of piano lessons, piano lessons on to complete a dance class, to complete a dance class on the art class, children adults and extremely busy.

Qualified families, help their children study the piano for a school was needed. Children learning piano can exercise endurance, knowledge, know music, exercise right-hand man of the division of labor, and so on. However, the way to go professional piano is still very difficult, more later learn, the more expensive tuition fees, coupled with examination irregularities, talent is not easy.

Fine arts, on the comprehensive development of children is also good. In addition to painting outside of pure art, architecture, film, animation and other art professionals have to use the knowledge. But the entrance is not easy, increasing year by year the number of candidates, many good students to cultural studies, fine arts, cultural studies, thus scores rising, more and more intense competition in college entrance examination.

Teacher's sad

Having said that the views on education, seems to be dissatisfaction of teachers. But instead, I am very understanding and sympathetic teacher's. Because my family is mainly responsible for people engaged in this occupation. Every morning, she must get up early to school. Burst of strident tones, awakened me from my dream, Lanjue is Shuibu Cheng, and up to prepare breakfast. Was inferior to me late at night back, I do not have the conditions and excuses not to cook. To avoid cooking, I have no home to stay outside, but not a long way to go. Of course, she is not lazy. Now too many students, a class of 60 people, to control discipline, lesson planning, lessons, a question, graders, correcting homework. Then, monthly exam, in the exam, final exam. Students do not test well, the school of a widening list is the look of the clouds. So the teacher is difficult, principals and school enrollment rate to the honor of pressure on them, they had no choice but to tap potential students, but the excavation, the children of the doomed.

A slogan disappeared

In the sixties and seventies, there was a very popular slogan, "The new three-year, three years old, mend them for another three years", meaning clothes broke, do not throw away, mend them, you can wear to six years above, the central idea is to promote thrift and economy. But now, the slogan has already disappeared. Clothes let alone six years, through two or three years even longer. Evaluation of clothes that people are not playing to see how many patches, but by style, the style of a date, on the shelf. Therefore, in the street, ladies dressed contests, and men were dressed maverick. Media often talk about is how to boost consumption and stimulate the consumer economy can grow, it seems that consumption is not no contribution to society.
I was born poor, young age does not love to wear new clothes to develop the illnesses. Family made a new dress, has been reluctant to upper body, even the point of dust clothes sweeping movements, to boldly put. However, the development of society so that I could not help, wear old clothes to work against his wife and children first of all, afraid of the face off family. Nurturing people Jiabu Zhu and long-term transformation of wear the new clothes, and does not feel thorn in the side, has become accustomed to.
Nevertheless, I have been quite critical of consumerism. Human consumption desires are endless, especially in modern times, with the rise of Western capitalist countries, capitalist way of life of people affected countries around the world. We all go for luxury lifestyle, eat delicacy, fashion wear, stay in a luxury villa, drive expensive cars, all the basic necessities to the rich target, as the standard. This way of life of a person living it is good for seven or eight years, after all, enjoy the comfort. But the cost of consumption is paid for consumption of natural resources, but some still can not renewable resources, I've run out, after several lifetimes of no use statistics. If this does not increase the momentum to curb consumption will eventually result in depletion of the earth's resources, humans eventually die out.
Therefore, we should be alert and not to blindly follow the capitalist countries to run, or talk about thrift. Some wear simple, off the shelf on the What. Tomorrow, I should put on old clothes turned out, he was who said, I also ignored the.

Detour

Now, people's lives rich, but unwittingly, the relations between people alienated. Remember the seventies, my home to the countryside. In that village, every family is poor, if someone is not of power, but the neighborhood was without distinction, I take you home with an ax, you borrow a bowl of soy sauce, my family, I send you home a bundle of chives, You sent me home an onion. After dinner, stopping by each other, sitting under the willow shade Laoke, far apart to gossip. In the cities, every family is very wealthy, one does not do a worse standard of living, but there are barriers between each other. After work, can not just go to the gay family stopping by. Surprise visit, people will find offensive, others suspect I was not to borrow money, or arrange for the brother in law work. Home, desperately short of something, is off to the neighbors refused to borrow, and would rather buy a taxi. Strangers to knock on the door, thinking that to sell something, or is a liar. Neighbors live more than a decade, actually do not know each other, in fact, just across the middle of a wall.
It is interesting that people are eager to get online real friends. Talk down several times, very trusted, and even some of devotion, and I do not know why the detour.

After feeling moved

This summer, I bought a new house and moved to a new district. New residential tree-surrounded, stone paving in the middle there is a garden, the environment is very elegant. But some days, but feel uncomfortable. In the original living quarters, the house is not a large environment is not very elegant, the neighbors have to say hello meet, but people who live here but something was different. Multi-access for the rich, men is a suit, ladies jewelry, and exchanges have cars. Meet at the stairs the morning, I tried to strike up a few words, delivered a smile, actually there is no reflection of his face reveals a an arrogant, one-yourself demeanor, I feel dull. No alternative but to open Gesanchawu the bus home, filling a full facade.
However, upstairs there is one little girl, aged seven-year-old, fat, and look very cute. Meet in the elevator each time, are asked what floor I went to for my click of a button. Naturally, I also like the children, should ask about the children meet, good for our communities, how to bring some vitality.

Architectural concerns

At present, our country's rapid economic development, conducting a large-scale construction. Wherever he went, tower cranes everywhere, tall shelves, one Block, new buildings, boom. But behind the prosperity, it is the form of identical construction, the lack of local characteristics, historical building has disappeared, people deeply worried.

Architecture is the living man and living services, heat the cold, the shelter is its main function, visual impact is its secondary function. But now bartering, the building used as the city's image to promote the use of performance leadership. More more luxurious building construction, materials more you use the more upscale. Building facade will be granite, glass curtain, also with granite paved road pavement. The mining of these stones, we must tear down trees mountains to destroy the natural environment. As the saying goes never comes back, is neglected. Cost of over a billion to spend up high-rise building, but space there as decoration. However, we have to look at the famous building in Europe, such as France's Charles de Gaulle airport, with a plain concrete wall is basically do not do decorations. We just get rich as a poor man, always wanted to wear the suits, put a up a front.

In recent years, the opportunity to visit some cities, here especially away, disappointed. Almost a thousand city side of the building are all familiar, all-glass curtain, granite veneer, architectural forms are mostly copied and pirated. Former China coach Bora Milutinovic visited many cities in China, but can not tell him to go to the cities because all cities are like a city. City should have a distinctive regional characteristics, see the Forbidden City and the courtyard, we know that Beijing; see Sun Yat-sen, we know that the Nanjing; see the Bund, Shanghai we know; without these regional representatives of the building, we We do not know to where. Our decision makers are always eager to modernization as the goal to create an international city, but the world first performance in the national character, the building of their own nation if not the aesthetic and cultural, there would be no nationality, no nationality also not the world. Foreigners come to China is to see the Great Wall and Forbidden City, Yin Wei that yes they did something, he will never look at our modern architecture, modern architecture because they are more of our beautiful Bi.

Urban development should respect the natural terrain in the original, based on topography, a reasonable cut, make the best use of the environment to do less damage as possible the harmony of architecture and the environment, such cities have beauty, it really looks like a bomb player movement. But now we have an operation of nature at every turn, cut open and damaged reclamation. Continue to erode the concrete jungle, mountain farmland, the city as crazy as the share of pancakes expansion, such as human heads, like birth scabies. We have and continue to dry the cut mountain recycling Hill, felling trees and then stupid CD.

Building is a historical, some people say that solidified music. When those styles, old and new buildings together different when the show is a city of historical context. But now, watching the real estate business and the encouragement of the One after another historic building demolished, in addition, the city's movement also came to an end. And getting worse and worse, more and more short years removed, the building must be completed 10 years removed on the grounds that impede the city's new image. Building technology is constantly being updated, new materials are constantly emerging, innovative architectural forms are emerging, in order to maintain the city's new image, how can we have removed forever? On the one hand, we have dismantled the old building, but he also copy antique. Often in some tourist attractions in the tree-lined areas, towering some nondescript, like temples, ancient as the new new buildings, such as an unworthy sequel, too unpleasant.

This result, the responsibility lies not only architects, but also because some of the urban development policy-makers attempt to take and self-righteousness.